What Is Female Ejaculation?

Female ejaculation (often referred to as “squirting”) is the release of fluid from the urethra during G-spot stimulation. Despite common myths, this fluid is not urine, though it does originate from the bladder and paraurethral glands. It contains prostate-specific antigen (PSA), similar to fluid produced by the male prostate.

In ancient traditions, female ejaculation was understood as the sacred nectar of the Goddess—a living expression of creative life force. Rather than something to be explained or controlled, it symbolized renewal, abundance, and the eternal flow of creation. In this release, the feminine body was honored as a vessel of immortality and divine wisdom.

The Body’s Protective Reflex & Releasing Control

One of the biggest barriers to G-spot pleasure and ejaculation is control.

Because G-spot stimulation can create sensations similar to needing to urinate, many women unconsciously tighten, hold, or pull away. This response is rooted in conditioning, not biology.

When the pelvic floor, nervous system, and mind are allowed to soften, the body can move into a state of surrender—where pleasure, emotion, and energy are free to flow.

This is why G-spot work is not just physical; it is somatic and emotional.

The Role of a Partner (or Your Own Hands/Dildo/Sex Toys)

When working with the G-spot, rhythm and presence matter more than pressure.

• A slow, rhythmic motion—often a gentle “come here” movement—allows the tissue to swell and respond.

• If a penis is involved, a steady, grounded rhythm that naturally presses against the front vaginal wall can support G-spot stimulation.

• Conscious engagement of the vaginal muscles—gently squeezing and releasing—can amplify sensation and help move pleasure through the body.

Above all, attunement is key. The body responds best when it feels safe, seen, and unrushed.

G-Spot Work as Healing

Many women store unexpressed emotion, trauma, or tension in the pelvis. G-spot stimulation can open not only pleasure, but also:

• Emotional release

• Memories or sensations from the past

• A sense of empowerment and embodiment

This is not something to fear—it is a sign that the body is communicating and releasing what it no longer needs.

When approached consciously, G-spot work can be a form of nervous system regulation, self-reclamation, and healing.

Reclaiming Feminine Pleasure

Female pleasure is not something to “achieve.” It is something to remember.

The G-spot and female ejaculation are invitations into deeper intimacy with the body’s wisdom. Whether explored alone or with a trusted partner, these experiences are most powerful when rooted in curiosity, consent, and reverence—not expectation.

Your body already knows the way.

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