Common Questions & Honest Answers
How do I schedule a session with you?
If we haven’t had the pleasure of meeting yet, please fill out the Pre-Booking Questionnaire to begin the intake process. I’ll be in touch within 24 hours to let you know next steps for booking.
Why is a pre-booking questionnaire important?
Screening for an Intimacy Guidance & Tantric Bodywork session is an important part of creating a safe, respectful, and intentional space for both of us. It helps ensure that we are a good fit and that the work we do together is supportive of your healing, growth, and wellbeing.
I take privacy and discretion seriously, and I believe it’s essential that there is mutual comfort, clarity, and readiness before moving forward. When we are aligned in expectations and intention, it allows the session to unfold with greater trust, ease, and presence.
Do you offer sessions longer than 90 minutes?
Yes. While sessions are often booked in 90-minute increments, I also offer extended 2-hour sessions for clients who would like additional time to relax, explore, learn, and fully settle into the experience.
If you are interested in booking a 2-hour or longer session, please contact me directly before scheduling so we can discuss availability and add the additional time to your appointment.
What can I expect during a session?
Each session is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, in a grounded and supportive way.
We begin with a down-to-earth, honest conversation where we explore your intentions, boundaries, and anything you’d like to work through. This is your time to arrive, settle your nervous system, and feel comfortable in the space.
From there, we transition into hands-on, Tantric bodywork. The touch is slow, intentional, and deeply attentive, focused on helping you get out of your head and back into your body. This work supports relaxation, increased body awareness, and a deeper connection to sensation and presence.
Many clients come in feeling stressed, disconnected, or carrying pressure from their daily lives. Together, we work in a practical, grounded way to help you slow down, release tension, and feel more in control of how you show up—both in your relationships and within yourself.
Clients often leave feeling lighter, more centered, and confident, as the body shifts into a state of rest where stress, tension, and stored emotions can begin to release.
Do you accept cash?
Yes, I welcome cash payments. If you’d like to pay with cash, please take a look at my booking calendar for available times and then message me with your preferred date and time to reserve your session. Online booking is reserved for credit card and PayPal payments. Cash is collected at the time of your session.
Text 603-340-5143 or email cominguprosesnh@gmail.com
When can I come back for another session?
After you are an established client, you are welcome to come back anytime you want to or feel called. It is recommended to at least come back three times in three months in order to establish trust and give an opportunity to go deeper into the experience.
How should I prepare for my session?
Since we will be doing Tantric bodywork, please arrive freshly showered and well-groomed. For safety and presence, avoid recreational drugs or alcohol before your session. Arriving clear, grounded, and respectful helps create a safe and sacred space for our work together.
What oils or products are used during sessions?
Only the highest quality products are used to support your experience. I offer premium doTERRA essential oil blends, with lavender, orange, and unscented coconut oil always on hand. If there is a specific scent you love, I’m happy to accommodate whenever possible.
For those who prefer a non-oily finish, SacredEarth Botanicals unscented massage cream is also available—an exceptionally natural and luxurious option that absorbs smoothly into the skin.
Where are sessions held?
All sessions are held in person at: 46 S Main Street, Suite 6, Concord, NH. The office shares the building with Capital Center for the Arts, with a separate entrance and parking lot off of Concord Street. Please park in a spot labeled, “Visitor Parking”. When you enter the building, go up the stairs on your left hand side, and Coming Up Roses is the first suite on the right. There is a Coming Up Roses sign on the outside of the door and it is labeled suite 6. Come into the waiting area, take your shoes off and have a seat.
What are your hours?
Private sessions available by appointment.
Saturday: 11:30 AM to 5:00 PM
Sunday: Closed
Monday: 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Tuesday: 3:00 PM to 5:00 PM
Wednesday: 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Thursday 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM
Friday: 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Is tipping customary?
Gestures of appreciation are always warmly received and deeply appreciated.
What is your cancellation policy?
Your time is valuable, and so is mine. If you need to cancel or reschedule, I kindly ask for at least 48 hours notice. Cancellations with more than 48 hours notice will be refunded, minus a small processing fee. Cancellations with less than 48 hours notice will be charged in full.
Do you offer lingam or yoni massage?
In many tantric traditions, lingam and yoni massage are practiced as sacred forms of conscious touch that can support healing, relaxation, and a deeper relationship with pleasure.
In my work, I choose to teach these practices rather than perform them directly. I demonstrate techniques using educational tools such as a dildo and pocket pussy, along with clear, step-by-step guidance so you can fully understand the process. You’ll also receive simple instructions you can take home, allowing you to practice with confidence at your own pace. This allows me to stay within clear professional and legal boundaries while still sharing the knowledge and principles behind the practice.
My focus is on helping clients develop awareness, confidence, and a more mindful relationship with their own bodies and sexual energy. When people learn these practices themselves, they can explore them in a way that feels safe, empowered, and aligned for them.
If you’re curious about Lingam or Yoni Massage, I would be honored to support your journey.